What Is Self-Compassion?
Self-compassion is treating yourself with the same warmth and understanding you would offer a friend in difficulty. It has three components: self-kindness, common humanity, and mindful awareness of suffering without over-identification.
Self-compassion is treating yourself with the same kindness you would offer a friend. Learn its three components and evidence-backed benefits.
Key takeaways
- Self-compassion is not self-indulgence.
- It is associated with lower anxiety and depression.
- It increases motivation, not laziness.
- It can be deliberately practiced.
Detailed Explanation
Kristin Neff's research distinguishes self-compassion from self-esteem. Where self-esteem requires being better than others, self-compassion requires only being human. Studies link higher self-compassion to lower stress, better recovery from setbacks, healthier behaviors, and greater willingness to try difficult things.
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